Work never ends

Have you had those days where it seems like you never get to sit down and relax? Your not alone. it starts from the time you get up till the time you go to bed and even then you lay in bed and think about all the things you havent finished yet or add more to your list. You get up clean cook clean play with the kids clean teach them things clean find more things to do then clean...are you catching a patern here??? Cleaning..you are constantly cleaning. i give up cleaning my house during the day. no matter what as soon as something gets cleaned the kids mess it up again. so after a long day of standing on your feet teacher cooking what ever all you want to do is relax. After everyone goes to bed you decide i better get up and start cleaning. mom is the only one that gets to enjoy the nice clean house even if its only for a few hours. then daddy gets up in the morning and sees it all nice and pretty and in 10 mins hes out the door off to work. then when he comes home at noon its clean for about 2 mins when the kids wake up come out and destroy it. the dishes used for lunch are scattered everywhere and depending what they ate there are pans and skillets and silverware all over the stove. Mom wakes up just before daddy goes back to work and sees the horrible mess and thinks why do i even bother cleaning if my house is just going to get messed up in the first 2 minutes of being awake. I pulled a little experiment for a week one week where i didnt do anything with anyones things except my own.. it drove me insane. But ive come to the conclusion that after trying to teach my kids to clean up after themselves that it cant be done..and i cant just blame the kids. Dad thinks im a mom or something and should clean everything..if it wasnt for me me i dont know what kind of a place these people would live in. These days parents dont make their kids do chores or the rules are never inforced...which is a problem..it makes them lazy when they get older. they dont know how to do anything for themselves. but most tend to keep a clean house. i hate cleaning again..it all started when i was little i was always cleaning. my dads house always had to look like the house was up for sale. everything in its place nothing could be a millimeter out of place or it was grounding time. having such a big responsibility at such a young age makes you grow up faster. You cant mess things up and just have fun. Then when you grow up its like why am i still doing all this stuff..i missed out on my childhood and now here i am still doing the same thing as an adult. we never seem to catch a break anywhere..the lucky ones are those who can hire in someone to do all that for them..now wouldnt that be nice??? i almost cant wait till im too old to do anything and have my kids do everything for me..